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Let me start with the Eldest Sis. My Eldest Sis once said that she gets very irritated when a fat man hits on her. She's currently a size four, and let's just say a lot of work went into that, especially when you consider that growing, our people traditionally preferred fat women (and literally stated it just like that). Now, when she first made that statement, I genuinely didn't understand what she meant. I thought it was just an issue of preference. She then tried to explain it to me thusly: straight of men of all sizes feel entitled to a conventionally beautiful woman. But the moment a woman expresses a preference for a conventionally beautiful man, she's branded a shallow bitch, a selfish whore...you know the drill.
And while I got that, I still didn't "get it". Until now.